Turf Wars
According to the poll numbers, some states have clearly mistaken “brutal honesty” for a personality trait—and a few of them wear that reputation like a badge of honor. Sure, the usual suspects pop up—looking at you, New York—but a couple of placements might make you do a double take, especially the state that snagged the top spot. So where does your home turf land—sweet as pie, or proudly on the naughty list?
Pennsylvania
Pennsylvania sits at #10 on the list of rudest states, with 23% of residents polled having answered “more rude” when asked “Do you think that people in your state tend to be more rude or more polite than most Americans?” Maybe the rowdy Eagles fans and their pole-climbing antics are ruining Philadelphia’s reputation for being the “City of Brotherly Love”. Or maybe it’s those despicable cretins from It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia.
A 2022 poll found Philly ranked as the rudest city in America. Yikes!
District Of Columbia
DC came in at #9 on the list—but are the people there rude, or just really busy? Some surveys blame the intense political culture and the fast-paced lifestyle. However, considering how small it is, it’s really impressive that it manages to make so many “rudest” lists.
California
In California, 27% of residents polled said that people in their state were more rude than most Americans. Despite the natural beauty of the Golden State, perhaps being perpetually stuck in cars in LA, the narcissism of showbiz, or the cutthroat culture of tech in San Francisco have led people in Cali to feel isolated, leading to antisocial behavior.
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Florida
How can you be angry in the Sunshine State? Well, for one, the never-ending glut of tourists might get on some residents’ nerves, along with the oppressive cheerfulness of Disney. And that’s to say nothing of the traffic. Oh the traffic. Tourist hotspots like Orlando and Miami really suffer under the weight of it. Wouldn’t you be mad too?
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Connecticut
Sure, the average person in Connecticut might not yell at you in the street, but they are infamous for their snobbiness and standoffish nature. It’s a bit more formal than other states, which can lend to an “aloof” vibe that borders on cold. For this reason, it just edged out California and Florida, with 28% of residents saying people are more rude.
Nevada
Is this a case of one city ruining things for the whole state? With over 40 million visitors annually, Las Vegas is ranked as one of the rudest cities in the US, and we can understand how the “What happens in Vegas” attitude would wear on residents, many of whom work in the hospitality industry. After all, if being nice is your job, are you really gonna do it for free when you’re not working?
New York
Thirty percent of New Yorkers happily admitted their state is ruder than the rest of the country—which feels very on-brand. A lot of that reputation gets pinned on the nonstop pace and no-nonsense energy of New York City, where “move!” is practically a love language. And while upstate might protest, anyone who’s ever wandered through the Albany bus terminal during peak chaos might quietly understand the vote.
Of course, locals insist they’re actually kind—just in a hurry. Maybe that’s true. But we’ll let the tourists who’ve been barked at in a crosswalk render the final verdict.
Still, here’s the twist: New York made the list, sure—but three other states managed to outrude it.
New Jersey
A whopping 34% of New Jersey residents polled said that people in their state are more rude than people in other states. But is New Jersey actually rude? Or is it just loud, brash, bold, and unapologetic about it? To some, that's a bad attitude. To others, that’s simply just what makes the people of New Jersey unique.
Massachusetts
Well, there’s a reason for the “Masshole” stereotype. A huge jump from NJ, 40% of Massachusetts residents polled said that people in their state are ruder than others. And much like NJ, Bay State residents are definitely a bit louder and bolder than the average American. Add in some trademark sarcasm—and the behavior of the average Bostonian when stuck in traffic—and you’ve got a pretty rude stereotype.
However, according to many both in and out of the state, that rough exterior hides a warm heart. So, if Massachusetts is #2, what state is #1? The answer is surprising…
Rhode Island
Compared to Jersey’s 34% and Massachusetts’s 40%, a whopping 42% of Rhode Island residents polled said that people in their state are more rude compared to most Americans. That’s a lot of rudeness for such a small state. Perhaps it’s just because they’re not afraid of speaking up, and they don’t sugarcoat things. Some negative stereotypes of the state involve bad drivers and government corruption.
All in all, it doesn’t really add up to a picture of being the rudest state. Maybe they just have self-esteem issues! So, if those are the top 10 rudest states—who were the most polite?
The Naughty Vs The Nice
Stereotypically, there are two regions in the US known for being nice. There is, of course, the South—known for that Southern charm. And then there’s the Midwest, known for its down-home friendliness. But while the results of the poll reflect these, some surprising states took the top spots for being most polite.
The Top 10
When 77,000 people were asked, “Do you think that people in your state tend to be more rude or more polite than most Americans?”, some states were notable for having more respondents answer “more polite”. These include Idaho, Alaska, Tennessee, Minnesota, Montana, Wyoming, North Dakota, and South Dakota. But the states that ranked the top two were even more of a surprise.
Vermont
Vermont had 51% of respondents answer “more polite” to the poll question. And while other states in New England like Rhode Island, Massachusetts, and New York, landed in the top five most rude, those poll numbers meant Vermont is the #2 most polite state in the US. Maybe it’s all the maple syrup that makes them so sweet…
Hawaii
“Aloha” isn’t just a cheerful way to say hello in Hawaii—it’s a whole philosophy. The word carries meanings like love, compassion, peace, and mercy, and apparently, residents take that pretty seriously. In a poll of 77,000 people, the Aloha State surfed its way to the number one spot for politeness.
The numbers back up the vibe. While 51% of Vermonters bragged that their state is more polite than the rest of America, a breezy 60% of Hawaii residents said the same—proving that paradise isn’t just about beaches, it’s about manners too.
Rudest Cities
Just to round things out and reflect on the results of the survey, we also checked a survey where Americans were polled and asked to rank the rudest major cities in the US. The results mostly mirror the results of the state poll. Boston came in fifth, Chicago was fourth, Washington DC was third, and Los Angeles landed at second—meaning that New York City was voted the rudest city in the US.
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